Sunday, February 13, 2011

Out & About in NYC

It was one of those weeks where you have something to do before or after work every single day, and it all piles up until you're exhausted and just want to hide under the blankets. Or it was for me, at least. I'm not sure when NYC had the brilliant idea to put things like Restaurant Week and Broadway Week (it's new!) and Social Media Week and Fashion Week all back to back to back in a series like we're not all just trying to still get our bearing from the holidays.

Here are some highlights:


Dinner at Crepes du Nord. First of all, I was stunned by how tiny this place is, wedged into the Financial District like it doesn't even know how it got there, with about ten tables tops, a very tiny kitchen right in the front window and a cash register that has nowhere else to be but halfway up the front steps between the chef and the diners. Poor waitress! She was actually rather sweet, my friend and I enjoyed good customer service as well as ratatouille crepes (honestly not the best I've ever had, maybe that was the "Scandinavian" in it, but filling and fairly priced nonetheless) and a very delicious dessert crepe with bananas and raspberries and nutella and vanilla bean ice cream. Plus a bottle of Syrah, of course. Click the picture above for a more knowledgeable and in-depth review from the Eternal Optimist at Stuff I Ate.


Assouline at the Plaza. I like showing up to events with no idea what to expect; no seriously, my experience with highly publicized events (see here and here and below) is usually utter disappointment. Instead, I had a lovely night, meeting interesting new people that I already have plans to see again (such as the namesake ladies behind Lerebours Antiques and Alzerina Jewelry, who I will of course tell you more about at a later date) and seeing the Plaza Hotel for the very first time. Plus the bartender told me I was beautiful as he refilled my glass of Sauvignon Blanc past the open bar cut-off, and if that doesn't just make any night special I don't know what would. (Oh, a fast anecdote/word of warning: I believe the doors to the ladies' lounge in the lobby of the hotel do not lock, because I managed to walk in on squatting women. Twice. That, or I really did have one too many sips of wine!)


Drinks at the W. The same night as the aforementioned event, I went to close the night out with a nightcap at the W midtown, thinking it might be novel to compare this Living Room to the one downtown (visited two weeks ago). Despite pricey drinks, the bartender was fast and friendly and the crowd was a fun mix of business tourists and my-age locals looking for a decent scene on a Wednesday night off Times Square, so I had a nice time and, better yet, a quick commute home.


Compulsion with Mandy Patinkin. GO SEE THIS. Seriously, the Public Theater has done a marvelous job with this play about Sid Silver, a fictional author and former marionette-maker who struggles to bring Anne Frank's diary to the world in the aftermath of WWII and during Israel's establishment, who devolves into his own paranoia and obsession. The show is fast-paced and Patinkin as Silver makes you feel deeply for a man who is, quite frankly (you see what I did there?), pretty despicable. And sort of relateable and largely flawed and human too. If you think you know Patinkin's acting range think again; he's truly a treasure to see live. And my only minor complaint is one thing that I'll probably never, ever say again: I think the show needed more puppets.


Drinks at Juliet Supper Club. This is the poorly publicized event that I was talking about before, sadly. Invited through TheLuxurySpot.com to this Fashion Week kickoff event, I was sincerely thinking that dropping by the lounge after the play would be a good idea, a place to close out the night and an opportunity to check out a new venue, but by the time my guest and I arrived (around 10), the party seemed to be mostly over. A small crowd hovered around the bar, as per usual, and another little clump stood around the tiny pop-up Remington hair salon, but even the male dancer in the feisty red thong (yes, you're reading this sentence correctly) was alone and unappreciated on his little stage. Sadder still, no one even asked us to confirm our RSVP or provide ID, and no one greeted us but a bouncer whose sole concern was to check if we were 21. We contemplated turning straight around, but we'd already split the cab fare and it seemed only right to try one drink. One drink apiece turned out to be $32--and while that happens from time to time in Manhattan, imagine my surprise when the bill had a 20% gratuity already added on for us. Nearly forty bucks for two cocktails, plus the cab ride, and we'd well surpassed what we expected to pay to spend an hour at an event we'd supposedly been guests to--especially one that seemed to be almost over and not especially beneficial to us. Meanwhile, staff who didn't attempt to speak to us oversaw the photogs and straightened up the many well-placed Remington ads. As much as I hate to be criticizing, seemingly always, I was completely miffed that once again a PR team managed to overlook the very basics tenement of a successful sponsorship which is, in my estimation: One strategically placed, small Remington ad in the midst of a marvelous party full of people having fun and getting drunk is a better investment than a thousand giant banners draped all over a completely empty nightclub. IMHO. We bounced shortly after we hit the rocks at the bottom of our glasses and headed over to a local tavern where guys in t-shirts shot pool, beer was $4 a pop and then free once a gentleman decided to buy us a round. Much better than any fancypants kickoff party for a simple girl like Style Bard (ha).

This week actually stands to be much quieter, since I'm not quite earning invitations to the tents just yet. Not that I can say I identify much with high fashion in general, which is why I've always preferred the term "style" (obviously). But I do have some self-pampering lined up for Valentine's Day (plight of the single gal) and I will tell you all about that next week.

Saturday, February 12, 2011

Weekly Update: Style Bard Shoes

Check out the shoe sales that were posted last week at Style Bard Shoes:

Sunday

Extra 10% Off Bluefly Shoes - One Day Only! - Expired

Monday

ShoeDazzle Valentine's Day Shoes - $39.95 - While Supplies Last

Tuesday

Free Next-Day Delivery from Shopbop - Expires March 1, 2011

Wednesday

20% Off Gap Shoes - Expires Feb. 11, 2011

Thursday

Be FootSmart for Fashion Week - Limited Time Only

Friday

*Deal of the Week* Overstock Shoe Savings - Limited Time Only

Sunday, February 06, 2011

Unconventional, Affordable Valentine's Day Jewelry for Her & Him

Not that anyone's ever given me jewelry for Valentine's Day, but if you're looking for something special to give someone special, here are a few cute, non-smarmy pieces for men and women that I've come across recently through various websites and vendors.

For Her:


1. A watch is a classic, practical gift for your girlfriend. And giving her a watch that's actually on-trend will speak volumes about your diversity of interests (you don't have to tell her you got the idea from me!). Chunky, wide watches are popular and won't be going out of style anytime soon. But with a smaller wristband than a man's watch as well as chic, feminine touches, this gift means she's ready to dress up a casual outfit or even pair it with a dress. OP ART - Hearts at Tokyobay.com for $75.


2. Popping out a ring box on V-Day might give her the wrong idea, but you should be safe with a bracelet box. Especially if it contains this lovely, delicate Triple Birds Bracelet by Gorjana at Shopbop, which is an affordable $54. (Ladies: Don't forget your single gal pals! Gorjana also has a range of friendship jewelry that I would be touched beyond belief to receive from a friend.)


3. Another gift that strays from the convention of heart pendants and diamonds is this scented pendant by Joya Studio. Inside the 'Ancient Sphere' is a solid perfume that slowly releases over time, encouraged by the nearness of her body heat as she wears it. Two presents in one, she's sure to think of you each time she dons it and catches a trace of the Potion (lavender, lotus blossom and bergamot); $80.

For Him:


1. Who says diamonds are just a girl's best friend? These 1ct black diamonds, set against sterling silver, give the TDW Black Diamond Ring a masculine edge that I find quite appealing. It's only $155.99 right now at Overstock.com.


2. I ran into Meister Watches at a trade show recently and fell in love. Naturally, I wanted one for myself, but since they are actually men's watches (not just men's-style, which are so popular for the ladies lately), I've thus far refrained. I guess the boys can have something special just for them--this time. Though they look extremely fashionable and high-end, my favorite, the CHIEF102RB, is only $250.


3. I don't know too many guys who wear cuff links or tie pins (...not without irony, at least). But I do know a ton of guys with old, beat-up wallets. Change up his money-holding ways with a smart-looking money clip, which you can have engraved with his name or a personal message from you to him. It's a nicely priced $19 at FineandDandyShop.com, where you can also buy him a pen, flask, fob chain or various assorted accessories to go with it. Plus, you should patronize its owner, Matt Fox, who is a charming man making his way in the e-commerce world and deserves your support. For the record: No, "buy me things" is not a V-Day appropriate message, honey. Maybe for St. Patty's Day, which is a little more focused on the green.

P.S. Manhattanites: This week I dined at Candela, Candela at 5th St. & 2nd Ave. It's a very cozy, intimate setting with great service and tasty, affordable food. Although, I'm biased toward anywhere that give you complimentary bread & dip and can stay on top of refilling a water glass--what can I say, I'm easy to please. Although this Cuban-Italian dinner (yes, you read that right, there are two menus) might not be the one over which to propose, it's probably a good bet for your romantic date night.

Saturday, February 05, 2011

Weekly Update: Style Bard Shoes

Check out the shoe sales that were posted last week at Style Bard Shoes:

Sunday

Final Sale of the Season at Net-A-Porter - Expired

Monday

Extra 30% Off Reebok Sale Shoes - Expired

Tuesday

The Walking Company Shoes + Free Gift - Limited Time Only

Wednesday

Extra 25% Off - Planet Shoes Sale - Expires Feb. 15, 2011

Thursday

45% Off Endless Boots for Valentine's Day - Expires Feb. 14, 2011

Friday

*Deal of the Week* Sale on Zappos T-Straps - While Supplies Last

Sunday, January 30, 2011

A Cultural Expansion, A Fashion Show Nightmare

Last night I learned a valuable (and expensive) lesson about heeding red flags attached to poor public relations. And knowing where you're going and what to expect before you get there.

After exchanging several e-mails with the coordinator of the Richard Harris men's runway show taking place at a "gala" in Queens, I was a little wary because I still didn't fully understand the program. The event wasn't standalone, it was actually paired with such acts as Daniel Merriweather, Magic Mask Change and The Hunan Opera. Why was it being billed as a gala (which seemed a strange word choice to me, with connotations of banquet halls and cocktail hours)? Why was it being paired with presentations from opera performers and ballet dancers and musicians and vaudevillian acts? For what purpose was this hodgepodge of talent coming together on a stage for 2.5 hours? And why did I even want to go?

Well, I wanted to go because I was comped as press so that I could write about the evening, which actually turned out to be the First Annual Cultural Expansion - A Celebration. The show was intended to celebrate the Chinese New Year, also known as Spring Festival, which this year falls on Feb. 3, but I wouldn't learn that until much later. In fact, when I was trying to understand what was going on, the press materials were confusing at best, and I wasn't given much better information for asking questions, so I decided to stop doing that and just show up on Saturday. Bad choice.

When I arrived, it was mayhem. Given a general address, the actual auditorium was difficult to find due to poor lighting, huge snow piles and lack of signage. But I wasn't the only one running late; the show wasn't near starting when I arrived, and people were still mingling outside. All of the auditorium doors were closed except one, which we were all ushered through. The ushers themselves didn't seem to typically work for the theater, because they were looking for the seats as much as the patrons were, they just happened to have flashlights. And when I asked if there was some kind of program, I was told that "someone is walking around with some, I think." Great way to welcome press; continuing to put zero information into their hands. Well, I requested that if my usher saw this mysterious program harbinger, could she please send him or her to E106. And then I settled in for the show, which seemed to be finally starting.

Instead of going over all of the 20+ acts independently, which would further waste my time, I'm just going to share with you five key points:

1) A fog machine was used egregiously, but only on one side of the stage.
Singing? FOG. Acrobatics? FOG. Fiddling? FOG. Dancing (for some reason to The Nutcracker)? FOG. Well, you know, half-FOG. I think one of the only components of the "gala" spared from such excess was the Richard Harris fashion show, which is truly a blessing, because if I were a designer whose work was detracted from like that, I would have a solid reason to never shown my face in Queens again; wait, is that a blessing or a curse? Actually, it took me back to one of my low-budget community theater productions where we added fog to nearly every scene of a play because we'd shelled out the dough to rent the machine for the run of the show, and damnit, we wanted our money's worth. Here, it hardly helped to dress a barren and poorly designed set that someone probably optimistically called "flexible" before they went back to enjoying the dinner they'd decided to buy for the maligned tech crew rather than fork out cash for a much-needed Stage Right fogger.

2) Small children jumped around as ballerina bunnies for awhile.
I know it's the Year of the Rabbit, but in a 2.5-hour show (or so they claimed), mustn't we begin to edit at some point? Actually, most of the dancing seemed like a waste of space to my untrained eye. I'm admittedly uninformed about Chinese dance, but I hope it's more than the bobbing, spinning and swaying that happened over and over again onstage tonight with a variety of seemingly random costumes and props. Zero narrative, zero stunts, zero enthusiasm and 100% moves I can replicate in my own home--but you'll just have to take my word.

3) Highlights included soloists Daniel Merriweather, He Yi and Han Jianwei.
I also enjoyed the Zhao Naiyi--an energetic, agreeable man who changed masks so fast you didn't know how he did it, creating new expressions and overall merriment while interacting with the crowd. His act was called "Suddenly Turn Hostile" so I'm sure you can see why I found it so endearing and close to my heart at this point in the night.

4) Technical glitches started out with scruffy mic feedback.
It was understandable at the start of the show but unforgivable in the middle of Merriweather's performance. They continued with things like cameras panning offstage to show the wings or crew members, the giant screen in the center of the stage going to "Battery Low" or a person's computer desktop--on top of random edits and angles that were otherwise projected by mistake. And that really brings up the question of why there was a giant screen onstage at all. This wasn't the Golden Globes or Yankee Stadium. The theater (which was advertised as seating 2,200) probably sat 1,000 tops. We could all see the stage, truly. And where did you want us to look, the act or the screen? Or did placing one in front of the other spare us the trouble of choosing? The mirror-redundancy of showing what was happening on center stage via a Jumbotron stationed on center stage was really emblematic of the show's central flaw--a focus on putting on a huge, extroverted extravaganza without stopping to self-analyze about intent, content, pacing, delivery or even the ultimate quality of the gestalt.

5) Oh, and did I mention that the entire show was in Chinese?
Yes, practically the entire thing; and no one thought this might be important to tell me when I RSVPed. I had no idea what was going on, there wasn't one English announcer or English subtitles--despite the presence of, as I was told, American press and other influential NYC attendees. I'm not entirely sure how you can have a "cultural expansion" that's only accessible to one culture, but maybe that's just supposed to be open to interpretation. Anyway, about an hour in, I decided to turn off my mind and enjoy the spectacle before me with the simplicity and joy of a child, who needs not understand the world to take pleasure in it. At two hours in, I began to play WordFeud on my Droid.

At 10:15, a quarter-hour past when the show was supposed to end, I saw the woman next to me searching her program--so I decided to peer over like the polite young lady my parents raised. I noticed that a huge chunk of the performances didn't seem like they'd been onstage yet. In fact, the fashion show, which I'd come to see and had thoroughly enjoyed (with themes of monochrome and looser tailoring, as I'm sure Fashion Week F/W 2011 will see more of in the coming weeks), was about the halfway mark. Which meant there was almost another hour of these indecipherable song-and-dance routines to go--way past the amount of time I was willing to invest in a show that barely seemed invested in itself. So I headed out.

Not the gala's fault by any stretch of the imagination, except for being hosted in the middle of absolutely nowhere, but when I called my car service that had dropped me off, they actually refused to pick me up. By then I'd walked across the street to a gas station, thinking it would be easier to find than the performing arts center had been when I first arrived. And then I called three more services, who similarly refused to pick me up. I would later hear from the cabbie who finally came that other drivers refused to cross boroughs, making my trip from Queens to Brooklyn a large stretch of the imagination on a busy Saturday night. That's an important lesson learned, I suppose, at the very fair sum of $57. Now that's a far cry from a free fashion show, to be sure. A very, very long and expensive night out--and I was still sober!

But today is a new day and a new week, so I'm going to stop crying over spilled milk and put the whole thing behind me. I can't say that last night was a total waste, and have instead decided to focus on what I've learned. Like not to go to every fashion event to which I'm invited. And to know that when a designated PR team can't even clearly explain the event they're trying to push, it's my cue to just stay home with a good book.

Saturday, January 29, 2011

Sunday, January 23, 2011

And We're Back!

Well that took nearly a month longer than anticipated, whoops!

If you're checking this post out from a feed of some kind, do feel free to pop on by the blog directly because I'd love feedback from everyone on the new layout! Still simple, as I've always wanted my look to be, but definitely a lot more chic than the previous template.

So what does this rebirth mean? It's more than just a redesign, I'm adding a lifestyle focus to the fashion content and will be posting on a regular schedule starting this very week! So keep coming back to check it out.

And I'm sure you're all wondering what I've been up to in NYC, since that's certainly going to be a primary focus of Style Bard going forward. Well here are just a few things I've been doing so far in 2011:

♥ Seeing MTC's Time Stands Still
♥ And attending the following Young Patrons event!
♥ Peacefully protesting the arrests of Belarus Free Theater members
♥ Checking out the annual PROJECT show for men's daywear trends
♥ Drinking at recently opened W New York - Downtown's Living Room lounge
♥ Dining at Tapeo 29
♥ Brunching at The Sunburnt Calf
♥ Reading Ishiguro's Never Let Me Go
♥ Watching One Too Many Mornings
♥ And shopping? Oh, let's just say there's been a lot of that, too.

More to come on these things and many more, but as you can probably tell, I've been a very busy girl! And that's just a small sampling, and that's just three weeks, whew. Feels like a long (and very fun!) year is ahead for Style Bard.

In the meantime, please enjoy as much as I this insightful video about the world of Scott Schuman, Sartorialist:



And yes, for those wondering, we are getting right back on schedule with Style Bard Shoes as of today as well. HOW HAVE YOU BEEN SAVING MONEY ON SHOES WITHOUT ME? HOW. Don't worry, dearly appreciated readers. SBS is back. New look and all.